Monday, 6 October 2014

Hopeless Capricorn

Capricorns are massive hopeless romantics even if it may not seem like it. Cappys move like a snail when it comes to romance. They match the saying "If she's easy she won't be worth it, and if she's worth it she won't be easy." almost perfectly. 

Capricorns are though shells to crack but inside they are just filled with melted chocolate hearts that will heat up to almost anything. They hate being vulnerable and will only open up to you if they feel some sort of connection. Which in itself is a huge step for a cappy. 

There is no real way to speed up the process. Only time will cause the Cappy to "warm up to you". Pressure will just cause her to close up on you and push you out. They don't like to feel like they owe you something or have to act impulsively. With that being said they will think about their every gesture almost a hundred times before giving out any signals. 

I often think this is why the capricorn is mistaken for cold when in reality they are just contemplating their next move. So cut her some slack, she only strives for perfection. ;)

Yes, the capricorn will think out scenarios before they happen and she's most likely the first one to plan her outfits, even if she won't admit it. - so how about a compliment for all her efforts? - 

With all being said, don't mistake the Capricorn's soft side for lack of confidence or being weak. She will always remain strong till the end. Capricorns have an ability to pick themselves up quite quickly and will always protect themselves by building walls or cutting you out. BUT she does care, and when she cares - she won't stop caring.

Saturday, 19 July 2014

Capricorns On Diets

When a Cappy is on a diet she means business. She looks for success and aims to achieve her goals. She will not play around on her diet and is more motivated to get where she wants to get. But sometimes she can get a bit side-tracked. So here are my tips, which are mainly aimed at the personality of a cappy, to follow through and see the results you have always wanted! 

1) "Cheat Days"
To kick things off I decided to start with the first thing that comes to people's minds when they hear the word diet... The CHEAT DAY. Personally, I do not "diet" or think of a healthy lifestyle as "dieting". I prefer to make a change that I can use for the rest of my life rather than a short period of time-but that's not the point. Capricorns should not have a cheat day. You are a person who is very dedicated and loyal. Cheating is not in your vocabulary. Or at least it shouldn't be. You will feel like you ruined your diet/lifestyle and be tempted to give up and admit failure. DON'T stress if you do fall short as you can pick yourself up faster than most, and then learn from your mistakes.

2) Rewards
As a capricorn, you tend to not reward yourself as much as others. That is not necessarily a bad thing as your "rewards" are hard to come by and make you work that much harder. As far as diets are concerned, you should reward yourself when you reach goals. This does not have to be food. Try things like: Getting a massage, go shopping, walk your dogs(rewarding not only yourself but your pooch too will feel great-plus you'll burn more calories which is a reward in itself) or even getting rid of baggie clothes. 

3) Motivation
As I said earlier, you are very self-motivated but when you start to notice that your eyes are starting to wonder towards that fast-food/ junk, you'll need a little external help. Try searching for quotes to keep you going. My personal favourites are "Won't quit till I'm fit" or "There is no one giant step that does it, it's a lot of little steps". Pictures may also help if you are more visual. Use whatever anything that reminds you of where you are going or will get your blood pumping for the gym/ activity. Clothes also could help. If you use it as a goal or motivation to shed those extra kilograms. 

4) Measurements 
I always enjoy recording my progress as it feels like I've done something. It could also motivate you or keep track of how you are doing, especially if you have an event/deadline coming up. Don't be shy to record your failures too as this will help you learn and stay motivated to stay on track. 

5) Pressure
Don't stress yourself out. You have enough other things to stress about. Take it easy, don't think too much about it if it makes your heart race and beat yourself up. You can do it, you have to trust yourself to do it and keep going because you are the only person who can change your story whether it be success or failure. The only thing that really matters is what you think of yourself.

Hope this helps anyone who feels like they are just not getting anywhere with their diet. Comment if you have any other tips, or stories. I love reading what you guys have to say (: Remember, you are beautiful not matter what your size is because beauty comes from within. 

Sunday, 12 January 2014

Cusp Capricorn Signs

Not all Capricorns are the same, cusp signs are a big example of this. If you are born in the bridge of two star signs then you are considered a cusp sign. Being a cusp sign means you have influences of both star signs.
Sagittarius/Capricorn Cusp
19-23 December

This means that you are much more ambitious than the usual Capricorns. It also means that you are more determined to get to the top in whatever field you desire. You are also very funny and silly and you don't always take yourself so seriously. You also have the ability to get along with all Capricorns and most other star signs.

Capricorn/Aquarius Cusp
19-23 January

The most social of all Capricorns. You love travel and adventure. You are very self-assured and have a lot of self-confidence. You love business and fiance more than usual. You are also able to bend the rules to suit you accordingly which quite unique to you as compared to other Capricorns. You love setting goals and reaching them.

Friday, 10 January 2014

How to flirt with a Capricorn

So everyone has a different style of flirting and I am in no way saying that all Capricorns are the same but from personal experience this is how I like to flirt.

I have learned that I am not interested in the sappy, cheesy over-used lines that are used to flirt.  I prefer the cheeky, unexpected and rather subtle ques that play with your mind a bit.

When using emoticons to flirt during texting use the winking face the most as the others make you seem to easy or just being over-friendly rather than suggestive and flirty.

Don't be afraid of rejection as cappys usually love to flirt even if they are not that attracted to you. Although that be said it will make them look at you differently which is a positive for you.

So don't be afraid to flirt with your cappy lady as she will enjoy the gesture of you putting yourself out there to have some innocent fun.

Friday, 9 August 2013

Insecure Capricorn

A Capricorn hides her feelings extremely well. Often you won't even think something is wrong and when you do, nothing is wrong and you get mixed up. Although there are small ways in which you can tell when something is wrong in a Capricorn's life:
  1. Firstly a Capricorn will start distancing themselves from everyone and kind of close off or shut down. This can get quite bad as they start over-analyzing and start taking life way too seriously. 
  2. A Capricorn might even start trying to act more interested about what might be wrong with you. This is just because they are trying to find common ground about being sad so that they can start opening up to you. They do this because they DON'T open up and show their venerability so they basically don't know how to or are just too scared to. This is to everyone so sometimes they're might even do it to themselves.
  3. Over sensitive. Capricorns get very touchy and sensitive to comments or even other people. So as soon as they start acting weird around people or in situations then you know there is a lot more bugging them than meets the eye.
  4. Careless attitude. Everything that used to be important to them won't be anymore and they'll become lazy, inactive and just kind of shut down in every aspect. This is because they love to control their lives and as soon as they low▲se some form of control, they end up losing themselves.
This does not last forever so give them some space but not for too long as once they start to feel lonely they might do things they'll regrets or become severely depressed.

Sunday, 28 July 2013

Friends with a Capricorn

Friends with a Capricorn

What it means to be friends with a Cappy for the Capricorn:
Capricorns are extremely loyal if not the loyalest out of the whole zodiac to their friends. They believe that to be friends is forever as well as never going behind your back. Sounds crazy well it's true, the only catch: Sometimes you may think you are friends when they are just really being friendly to you. This isn't a bad of the Capricorn because they are not mean nature they just don't trust you yet. If they don't trust you then they don't really consider you a friend who deserves their undying loyalty. Yes this may be sounding the same as what a friend should be but that is exactly what the Cappy friend strives for. They always want to be there for their friends and they are so committed that they will want to protect you and support you because they really care about the people they trust and love. The biggest sign that you're considered a friend to a Capricorn would be trust.

What it means to be friends with a Cappy for their friends:
Just because a Capricorns drive is to be perfect in everything doesn't mean they expect ALL the same back. They know that everyone is not perfect and they never really expect to get back what they give and that is why they take so long to trust people. They also see every effort no matter how small. Even if they do not show it, they do appreciate and acknowledge it either to themselves or to others. In fact it might even benefit you to benefit them.

Thursday, 20 June 2013

Perfect date for a Capricorn


date for a Capricorn

  1. The first and most important tip: Your Capricorn has agreed to this date with YOU so that in itself is a good sign! Don't stress too much, Capricorns are quite chilled.
  2. Capricorns love learning new facts so take them to a place where they can learn something or just have fun getting to know you.
  3. DON'T place too much pressure on your Capricorn to open up, they take time but they will be worth it. 
  4. As a Capricorn, I wouldn't like a dinner date until I'm comfortable enough with you. It places too much pressure on conversation and will make your Capricorn feel uncomfortable about putting it all out there. 
  5. Things that generally interest a Capricorn is: Music, theater, food, places and mainly quite general knowledge.
  6. Money and status mean a lot to a Capricorn and they are not fooled easily. Just because you take them some place expensive doesn't mean they think you're rich which brings me to my last point:
  7. MANNERS! Yes that is how a Capricorn tells you're status, the way you treat her and others. This is a vital tip as it's the first thing that will turn them away. When I mean away, I mean never speaking or any interest will return.
I hope that helps you on your journey to win your Capricorn's heart! "If it's meant to be, it will be."